October 5, 20252 min read

Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) Orders: Understanding Your Right to Choose

When it comes to end-of-life decisions, few topics are as emotional—or as misunderstood as Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) orders. A DNR order isn’t about giving up hope. It’s about making your own medical choices and ensuring that your wishes are respected when you can’t speak for yourself.

Faith Otutu
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Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) Orders: Understanding Your Right to Choose

What Is a DNR Order?

A Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order is a medical directive that tells doctors not to perform CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation) if your heart stops or if you stop breathing.

This order must be:

  • Written by a doctor (or authorized healthcare provider).

  • Based on your consent or your legally authorized decision-maker’s consent.

  • Included in your medical record or displayed in your home if you receive care there.

⚖️ The Legal Foundation

Each state has specific laws that govern DNR orders. These laws exist to:

  • Protect your right to refuse medical treatment.

  • Ensure doctors and emergency responders honor your wishes without legal risk.

  • Allow family members or healthcare proxies to make decisions on your behalf if you are unable to do so.

A DNR is often part of a larger Advance Directive or Living Will, which outlines your overall medical preferences.

💬 Who Should Consider a DNR?

A DNR order is typically appropriate for people who:

  • Have terminal or chronic illnesses

  • Are elderly or frail and do not want aggressive resuscitation efforts

  • Prefer a natural passing over invasive hospital interventions

The goal is comfort and dignity, not prolonging suffering.

Talking About DNR Decisions

Discussing a DNR order can be difficult—but it’s one of the most important conversations you’ll ever have.
Talk openly with:

  • Your doctor (to understand medical implications)

  • Your family (so they know your wishes)

  • Your attorney (to ensure documents comply with state law)

Final Takeaway

A DNR order is an act of empowerment. It allows you to decide how you want to be treated in critical moments—ensuring your care reflects your values, not someone else’s assumptions.

With proper legal and medical guidance, you can ensure that your wishes are clear, respected, and protected.


Thinking about creating a Do Not Resuscitate order or updating your advance directives? Our elder law attorneys can help you document your wishes and ensure they’re honored. Contact us today for compassionate legal guidance.

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